Love is a magical thing. Its never quite been understood and I don’t reckon anyone even fully understands it.
Love is confusing. It oftentimes can be confused with infatuation, or instantaneous attraction where the main source of jubilation are hormones acting up. This is an inevidentable human nature. For instance, we could see a reasonably decent looking human for the first time and all these creative fantasies start popping out of nowhere. Red flags are ignored and thoughts of an imaginative future starts wandering but conclusively, the relationship is nothing more than a temporary superficial obsession. In situations like these, love is exciting, sizzling and oh so anticipating. The ignorance in immaturity of early stages.
Love is more than logic. Acts of unintelligence can appear, strange behaviours and uncommon patterns are symptoms of love. Many people think that feelings are calculable and can be strategised for maximum profit; it just doesn’t work that way. Feelings are unspeakable and barely describable and cannot be taken lightly at all. Almost all logic is lost when love strikes and things become unexplainable. So goes the saying that love is blind.
Love can be dull. A decade of relationship can be reasonably less exciting than the first date 20 springs ago, but what strives and persist the existence of the relationship is the understanding, trust, childishness and easiness of long married couples. After a couple of years together, love can turn bland, as though eating the same dish daily, or living in the same house for the rest of your life; and we’re doing neither of that, let alone with a living and breathing person. Needless to say, a lot of comprising must happen.
In conclusion, to love and be loved is a fascinating thing. Yet contrary to popular beliefs, it doesn’t have to start with the precondition of having a partner. Love exist everywhere. Healthy relationships between animals and humans is a symbol of love, healthy parents children connections are clear indications of a loving relationship.
It is utmost important to not be conplacent and have an infinite grattitute to the person you are in a relationship with in order to sustain a happy and fulfilling relationship.